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Post by doogiehowsermd on Aug 31, 2006 10:54:03 GMT -5
Bevelators, I need some help on this one:
A couple of months back I hooked up with this girl I knew had a boyfriend, and the boyfriend was a friend of a friend. I had never met him before and knew that what I was doing was wrong, but when he confronted me I was honest and told the truth, that yes I did hook up with his girlfriend (I was expecting an ass whooping, but told the truth anyway). To this day she denies that it happened and is out and out lying to him.
What gets me is this...he knows that I am telling the truth, everyone has told him so, but he is still with her, and harbors all the resentment toward me. My stance is this: Either your girlfriend is lying or she isn't.
Would like to hear your thoughts.
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Post by mikenice on Aug 31, 2006 11:03:41 GMT -5
Nah, you did the right thing. If you lied the guy would just look like an asshole for not knowing, and you'd probably feel bad.
Now, this is all on him and her. You got yourself detached. He should hate you. But he should hate her much more. Not only is she a whore, but she's a lying cunt too. And he looks more pathetic now.
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Post by doogiehowsermd on Aug 31, 2006 11:09:24 GMT -5
Thing is that he and I would be cool if this didn't happen.
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Post by thebonabus on Aug 31, 2006 11:13:57 GMT -5
You did the right thing. The truth to the matter is you probably weren't the first guy the whore cheated on her boyfriend with and thusly lied about.
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Post by rimrocka44 on Aug 31, 2006 11:28:10 GMT -5
doogie,
what you need to do is give her a call, bang her again and tell the dude I told you so.
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Post by alison on Aug 31, 2006 11:29:47 GMT -5
It was SO the right thing to do. xoxoxoxoxoxo Alison  |
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Post by CosmonautLaunchPad on Aug 31, 2006 12:08:03 GMT -5
A couple of key things. You did absolutely nothing wrong here. As guys, it is much harder for us to get laid than women. We need to get johnny cake wherever and whenever we can get it. As long as it's not YOUR friend you are completely in the right.
Side note: You should obviously never bang a friends girlfriend, and you probably want to stay away from banging friends x-girlfriends also. No matter how close or not close they were as a couple. I've seen this ruin a lot of good friendships.
Doogie,
Your friend isn't mad at you is he? I had a situation like this, and the only person I was worried about telling was my friend. I didn't give a $hit what his friend thought about me banging his girlfriend, but I was worried it might make my friend upset for inadverdently screwing over his buddy. Since I had very little if any connection or association with his friend, he was proud of me, and didn't give a $hit. He said, "[Cosmo], I'm just happy to hear you're not lance bass." He's got a pretty sharp tongue.
Also, I've learned never to be the bearer of bad news. I had a real messy situation in high school where both the guy and the girl were close friends of mine. Caught the girl cheating on the guy at a party I was throwing and after deliberation, told my buddy. Long story short, he flipped out, but took the girl back. He was pissed at me because it happened at my party, and she was pissed at me for ratting her out. So I didn't do anything for anybody by bringing the bad news. If possible, always let someone else do it or realize the guy should know it's going on or probably already does and is just in denial.
Anyway, not sure if some, any or none of this relates to your situation, but I hope it helps.
***Edit - and like Rimrocka says, BANG HER AGAIN!!
***Double Edit - Who the fuck set P U S S Y to = Johnny cake? Now I look like a gay. Oh well.
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Post by The Dull House on Aug 31, 2006 12:16:32 GMT -5
If you knew she had a boyfriend you shouldn't have banged her. But nonetheless, you were honest and if this guy is pissed at you he should definitely not take his girlfriend back. If he tries any crap like that again private message me and I'll stop down and cover ya.
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Post by s dot carter on Aug 31, 2006 12:24:39 GMT -5
If you knew she had a boyfriend you shouldn't have banged her. But nonetheless, you were honest and if this guy is pissed at you he should definitely not take his girlfriend back. If he tries any crap like that again private message me and I'll stop down and cover ya. Disagree, knowing or not, its HER responsibility not to be a whore. I wouldn't go as far as to say you did the RIGHT thing, but I definitely don't thing it was wrong at all either. I wouldn't have said anything unless he flat out asked you. However, I would've said I didn't know she had a boyfriend. Ultimately, the only person this dude should be pissed at is his slut girlfriend. |
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Post by bonafide on Aug 31, 2006 12:37:16 GMT -5
Fuck 'em! You shouldn't have said shit to the guy and kept on bangin' the chick. The only exception would be if the guy is a Bevelator then you should have capped the chic for being
a lying cunt.
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Post by vinnypunditsheros on Aug 31, 2006 12:40:34 GMT -5
I agree with S Dot. When this guy confronted you, you manned up. Well done. That takes more balls than being a mystery bevelwagon SMITER.
As for that dude taking her back, he's an idiot. But she's denying it and he wants to believe her. His fault. His girlfriend is a dirty slam pig and he knows it. You should ask him how your cock tastes.
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Post by mikenice on Aug 31, 2006 12:53:31 GMT -5
Do you know how he found out? Assuming you didn't know the girl would lie about it I think you did the right thing. It would be worse for you to lie, then have the girl admit it happened.
It sounds like his boys caught wind of it and told him (going against thedean's rules). Either he's naive and thinks you made it up or something, or his head's so far up this girl's Bonnieball he doesn't care.
Chances are they'll break up, seeing as she's a filthy filthy McNasty and all. It'll take some time after the break-up, but I think he'll stop hating you as his feelings for his (hopefully) soon to be X start disappearing and he can say to himself that she was a no good dirty push booze hag.
Edit: yes Cosmo, the way johnny cakes is put in your post is extremely gay.
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Post by mikenice on Aug 31, 2006 13:12:00 GMT -5
I just think it's better to tell the truth. You're right, though, that guy shouldn't have approached doogie about it. If he has to approach the guy involved, then she's guilty in his mind, because he doesn't trust her.
If he had/has any suspicion of you and his girlfriend, he's never going to like you anyway. If you tell the truth, it's easier for your mutual friend who's forever in the middle now. If that guy takes it out on your friend, then it's his loss. Who wants to be friends with a dude who will take his known whore girlfriend's side over his buddy?
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Post by fudge1 on Aug 31, 2006 13:24:50 GMT -5
If I were in that situation, I would have kept banging her until either he found out or she said this is wrong....Hopefully that latter wouldn't happen.
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Post by thebonabus on Aug 31, 2006 13:52:23 GMT -5
The point remains the boyfriend must not be good in the sack if she is looking for cock elsewhere. His fault for not fucking her good in the first place.
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